But even though these professionals insert themselves into the most personal parts of singles' lives, there's no industry regulator outside of general business-rating entities like the Better Business Bureau.To help you find the best matchmaker for you, we've asked pros and women who've hired them to reveal 10 things a matchmaker might not admit that anyone considering using one needs to know.1. While matchmakers can get certified, they don't have to.

I spoke recently with three matchmakers, Richard Easton, Janis Spindel and Samantha Daniels.

We will always respect your confidentiality and only share your first name and never reveal your address, last name, phone number, email address or where you work.

We believe the only way to tell if you have chemistry with someone is to meet face-to-face, so we’ll arrange a low-pressure lunch date for you and your match.

"I'm working with guys who pay 0 grand for a car without the blink of an eye.

If you're short on time, want personalized help or are just looking to try a new way to find a mate, a matchmaker can be a great option.